01 June 2021
Make the most of a trip to the cemetery to discover the site where your ancestor was buried, in a guest blog by Janet Jawando and David Poole, volunteer genealogists at York Cemetery.
What kind of service might a cemetery provide?
York Cemetery, like many others, has a team of enthusiastic and friendly volunteer genealogists who are very willing to help visitors and enquirers looking for their ancestors and we offer to guide visitors to the graves they are looking for.
Not all cemeteries are able to offer this service, however, so what would be the best way to approach this line of enquiry?
- I would suggest, first of all, contact the cemetery to find out if your relative is there
- If so, what kind of records do they have of the person and their burial? Cemetery records vary widely in scope and completeness of information. Is there a memorial of any description and what sort of condition is the grave in?
- How much does the cemetery charge for printed copies of records, photographs or grave visits? Usually there is a small charge
- If it is possible to visit, do make an appointment. Staff can then make any necessary preparations, sometimes including clearing the surrounding ground and/or the grave itself.
What to take with you? Depending on the advice given by cemetery staff, a few suggestions might be:
- Sensible shoes!
- A camera
- Possibly garden shears or secateurs
- Water in a bottle and a hand brush; useful for cleaning headstones.
What might a memorial tell us?
A memorial could be any permanent marker placed on a grave, a simple vase, kerb or headstone for example. Memorials vary widely in the detail of information inscribed upon them, some giving only a name and date, others, like the one shown here, can be very informative.
In the Unconsecrated Section of York cemetery, where Catholics and Nonconformists were laid to rest in the nineteenth century, a large, granite headstone with a carved decoration announces the grave of Elizabeth Bentley and her husband William. The inscription tells us that William was a military man, a Troop Sergeant Major of the 11th Hussars, and one of the ‘six hundred’ at Balaklava in 1854, a quote from Tennyson’s poem about the Charge of the Light Brigade during the Crimean War.
The size and quality of the headstone indicate a well-off man, as does his last address, an area of York with substantially-sized Victorian terraced houses. His will, accessible on Ancestry.com shows he left £118, a tidy sum for those times.
More details of Sgt Bentley’s life and his part in that memorable event were found in an article published in the York Evening Press in 2004 for the 150th anniversary, which is still available online.
Burials without a memorial
An email enquiry led us up an interesting path. The enquirer wanted to know whether a married couple, Helena and James Dyke were buried in the Cemetery. Helena Dyke was easily found in the cemetery records, but the other person in her grave was John Joseph, not James, Dyke, and there was no memorial on the grave. A search of the genealogy website FreeBMD showed that his birth was registered under the name of John Joseph. Intrigued, we Googled him and found that he also went by the name of Colville, or Col. Dyke.
An interesting website revealed much more. John Joseph and his wife Helena had been music hall stars during the 1870s and 80s, John as Col. Dyke, the ‘Popular Prince of Ventriloquists’, and Helena as Lena Love, the ‘strange clairvoyant and Fairy Fortune Teller’.
John Joseph later described his occupation as a photographer, cinema manager and as a herbalist. Even without the presence of a memorial on the grave, a lot of information came to light about this fascinating couple.
York Cemetery, The Gatehouse, Cemetery Road, York YO10 5AJ; tel: 01904 610631 (Fridays only); e-mail.
(originally published April 2017. Reviewed June 2022)